I am so sorry for what he has done to you.  I'm getting ready to go through the same thing, the only difference is that I know it's come, what he did to you was cowardly.  I wish there was something I could do to help you financially.  We have much more in common than you even know!  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Hello everyone.  Googled and found this site, sounds like what I need right now.  My husband and I are going to separate, he thinks we married too you and he never got to do the things in life that I did.  (I'm 5 yrs older)  We've been married 14 yrs and have two sons, 7 and 10.  I used to work a full-time job, but with the cost of afterschool and summer daycamps, we came out with less money than we made.  So 4 yrs ago I became a SAHM.  My husbands schedule is CRAZY, there is no way to get a job, not to mention I live in a very small town and no one is hiring, not even McDonalds!  I do however work as needed on a contract basis for my father-in-laws company around the kids and husband's sched.  But it's not dependable.  I may work two days one week, and not work any for three weeks.  He's giving me every opportunity he can to work, but the work is just not there.  My husband will be moving out and I'll stay here with the kids to keep things as normal as they can possibly be for them.  His salary cannot support two households, and I'm so desperate.  I guess I could beg him to stay and work this out, but that wouldn't benefit ANY of us to live together under these conditions because we "have" to.  I'm having a hard enough time dealing with being told that I'm not loved anymore.  I have bent over backwards for him our entire married life, and I feel like a fool.  I don't know how I can financially keep our home.  I feel like my world is just falling apart.